Is it dangerous to watch porn?

You’ve probably heard a lot about pornography over the past 12 months. Who can watch it?
Who should watch it?
Does it serve a purpose in today’s world?

These are all really big questions. Pornography’s purpose is to provide entertainment that is sexually stimulating for adults. It can be still image, audio or video and often depicts over the top, idealistic versions of sex.

Why people watch?

People watch pornography for lots of different reasons, some of which include:As stimulation during masturbation or partnered sexFor fantasy and escapismTo explore their sexuality and discover what turns them on and what doesn’tTo explore their identity - many LGBTQ+ people find representation in porn they can’t find elsewhereTo learn about sex and different types of sex

Considerations & Education

Watching porn on the surface is not dangerous. But there are some things to consider…

Watching porn for education can lead to unrealistic expectations of sex, which can then lead to concerns about performance, body image and healthy relationships. This is because porn does not represent real life sex - it is entertainment, not a ‘how to’. It’s important to balance what you see in porn with education from reliable and factual sources such as school education and places like NHS, Plannedparenthood, etc.

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Use

Another thing to consider is how watching porn feels for you. Does it feel worrying or fun?If you find watching porn becomes frequent and starts to take over other parts of your life - perhaps it stops you hanging out with friends or engaging in hobbies - then it might be that watching porn isn’t healthy for you.If you also find yourself watching pornography that is more and more extreme to feel stimulated, that also might be a sign that there’s some problematic porn use going on.This is when it can start to feel dangerous.

Stereotypes & Behavior

Porn can also feed into really harmful stereotypes and expectations that we have about our roles in society.Violence against women and girls is commonplace in pornography, making it look normal. It is not. So if you find that misogynistic and aggressive language and behaviour is becoming normal in the bedroom, or even more broadly in your relationship, and it is worrying you, it might be helpful to look at the role porn plays in that.

It’s not dangerous to watch porn if:

You are over 18
You understand it is entertainment
It feels fun and exciting
It does not interfere negatively with other areas of your life

Porn becomes dangerous if:

You are viewing it at a young age
You find yourself seeking out more and more extreme porn
It starts to interfere negatively with your life and relationships
You start to feel shame, worry and become more secretive about what you are watching

How do I know if it’s dangerous for me to watch porn?

For some people, pornography is entertainment that they can pick up and put down when the mood suits them. But for others, their relationship with porn can become problematic as it negatively impacts their everyday life and mental health - when it tips into the latter, that’s when it becomes dangerous.

If you do find your porn use is becoming problematic or you’re worried about it, it’s really important to seek help.

• Talk to friends and family who won’t judge and can support you

• Put blockers on your devices and restrictions via your internet provider

• Create distractions that keep you away from porn and bring you positivity elsewhere

• Reach out to organisations or seek therapeutic support.

REMINDER: Pornography is entertainment for adults and it is only advised to be watched if you are over 18.

If you are watching pornography under 18, you are not breaking the law, so if you need help, it is important you get it.

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